Meeting girls in a bar may be easier than you think.
A bar can be a good place to meet a girl if you know go about doing so. Depending on the people and the environment, getting and keeping a girl's attention is quite possible. Whether it has to do with your approach or how you speak to her, several tips can help you meet a girl worth hanging out with.
Instructions
1. Hang out in open spaces. It's difficult to converse with someone when everyone is packed in around you. According to the A Love Links Plus website, a guy should move out to the patio or other area of the bar where there is plenty of space and opportunity to carry out a conversation.
2. Separate yourself from your friends. When you are lumped together with your other friends, guys or girls, the women you are trying to talk to may feel a bit intimidated. Not only may they not approach you, but they may not even be able to give you the usual signals that indicate they want you to come over, especially if they can't see you in the midst of the crowd. Even if your group moves to a less crowded area, pull yourself away a bit.
3. Have a great time or look like you are. The Ask Men website notes that women will notice your positive and happy attitude. Most women aren't into talking to the guy sulking in the corner. Smile, talk to your friends, dance and thoroughly enjoy yourself; if you aren't enjoying yourself, fake it.
4. Listen to a girl when she speaks, when you do strike up a conversation. According to The Daily Contributor, having a conversation without pickup lines can help you continue to chat with the woman that captured your interest. Comment on what she says, ask questions and pay attention for anything the both of you have in common. When she feels you're genuinely interested in her and aren't just talking to her for how she looks, she'll be more receptive.
5. Be confident. The Daily Contributor states that it is important to have confidence without being cocky. Many women won't want to talk to you if you aren't comfortable or happy with yourself; they can often sense it, so be a person they want to associate with. Spewing pickup lines may make you come off as more cocky than confident, and many women may feel that beyond the lines you don't have much to offer.
Tags: Daily Contributor, meet girl, pickup lines, they want, with your, your friends