Open international adoptions are rare.
Open adoption gives parents the chance to build a family through adoption and provides children with loving homes while easing the feelings of alienation some adopted kids have due to not knowing who their birth relatives are. Historically, most open adoptions have been domestic, since staying in contact with a birth parent on another continent can present some logistical problems. But increasingly, parents are reaching out to birth families in foreign countries as well. Open international adoptions still are rare, but if you find the right agency and social worker they are entirely possible.
Instructions
1. Research adoption agencies. Since international open adoptions are rare, you shouldn't expect to find them specifically advertised in an agency's materials. Do look for an agency that advertises international adoptions, since not all agencies are licensed to work internationally. Though it's not mandatory, try to find an agency that also performs domestic international adoptions -- this is a good sign that the agency believes in open adoption and may support you in seeking one overseas. Do as much research on agencies as you can, comparing the services they offer and the support they provide to families adopting openly and internationally.
2. Discuss your desire for an international open adoption with the agencies you're considering. It's important to understand that, to many adoption professionals, international adoption and open adoption do not necessarily go hand in hand -- in fact, many couples state that they seek international adoptions precisely because openness is fast becoming the norm in domestic adoption, and they do not want to be expected to maintain a relationship with the child's birth family. This doesn't mean at all that you will be unable to find an agency to help you with an international open adoption; it simply means you'll have to find adoption professionals who are willing to think outside the box. Be very clear with each agency that you are interested in an international, open adoption. Ask specifically that they make a note of this in your file.
3. Choose your agency. Take into account the services and support each agency provides, the agency's reputation, how receptive their representative seemed to the idea of an international open adoption, and anything else that is important to you.
4. Follow your agency's instructions in filling out the necessary paperwork to prepare for and complete an international open adoption. This process will likely begin with a signed agreement with your agency and an I-800A, the Application for Determination of Suitability to Adopt a Child from a Convention Country, or equivalent form. Once you are matched with a child, necessary adoption papers are likely to include, but may not be limited to, a petition to classify the child as your immediate relative, affidavits concerning the child's medical state, applications for visas and citizenship on behalf of the child, and a written commitment to stay in contact with the child's birth relatives. Your agency will be able to guide you through this process, as well as advise you regarding the fees and other requirements necessary to your adoption.
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